Love???

Don't you think idea of love, romance etc is highly overrated, I mean how often you see a "perfect" couple, with an stunning understanding and never dying romance. I've seen people getting married to their "love of life" and within few days of their "unification" both love and life decides to de-merge their relationship and choose to settle on different planets leaving mortal souls on earth, but I'm in no way relating it to fights, fights will be their in any case so fight doesn't reflects any thing except for few things about the "fighters".

So what is love, well its nothing but a feeling which humans feels due to rise in testosterone, which is quite normal in living beings and should be considered normal in any case. If you mix that with a nice behaviour and beauty (definition varies person to person and is highly debatable) you will get a person whose company you are likely to like and hence you will fell like meeting more and more with that person and hence a system was evolved which allowed two people liking each other to stay together without any inhibitions. well I don't know as how and why marriage was created but I feel tat it was done to control younger lads of any group from wooing other younger chicks, allowing leader of the clan to assert his power or love on as many chicks as he wishes to. 

Hence over a period of time with a systematic brain wash with the help of books, novels, movies and songs we have been programmed to choose only one partner or monogamy, which was not the case in pre industrialization period. because no one had any access to books or anything like that, which allowed people to live their lives without in a non programmed manner or allowing them to follow their natural instincts. 

There was a time when writers used to write stories like Romeo- Juliet and there were enough followers too, but in the recent past time has changed bit too fast which rendered that old age but nice to ear concept obsolete. 

Now, youngsters are experienced with multiple relationships before they enters into their twenties. There are increasing cases of extramarital affairs and divorces even in cases of love marriages. People or so called analysts or social scientists (well tats a weird term) are blaming it onto our changing lifestyles or increasing competition, work load and what not. but the only thing they won't talk about is the natural and genuine human instinct. 

I mean com'on its very much understood that you need money, if you don't have money you have love either and if you need money you got to work, more money brings more love hence more work. So, while at work for extended period of time, you feels like having fun and you can't find your so called soul partner around you coz, even your partner is busy making money, then wats the wrong if you enjoy your natural instinct instead of suppressing it and frustrating yourself. Which may affect your work and your earning and if it continued it may cause troubles between you and your "soul mate". So, is it wrong if you enjoy and obeyed the call of nature to save you "married-life" and harmony between you and your "soul-mate". Money is just an example though and you would need many other ingredients to have a happy life but money is most basic and most important of them. 

Well I don't think so, you need not feel any guilt....you had fun..and fun is fun....whether you had it in an amusement park or somewhere in the dark corners of a street...enjoy life is short ...after after you die its only you who died...everyone else will keep having fun ....and btw no one gonna tell you how much he/she had...after you. 

once you dead u dead.....so why to work hard for a life after life ..live the life within life ...